A Different Kind of Luck: The Four-Leaf Clover and the Search for Authentic Self
Barbara Toohill, PsyD, LCP Barbara Toohill, PsyD, LCP

A Different Kind of Luck: The Four-Leaf Clover and the Search for Authentic Self

This St. Patrick’s Day, we tend to look for luck in all the usual places—but what if the “four-leaf clover” we’re actually searching for has less to do with chance and more to do with how we live? Drawing on the insights of Viktor Frankl and St. John Paul II, this reflection explores four deeper “leaves”—self-knowledge, self-acceptance, self-gift, and self-transcendence—and how they shape a life of meaning, purpose, and quiet steadiness. With a mix of warmth, humor, and practical insight, it offers a grounded alternative to luck: the slow, meaningful work of becoming who you were meant to be.

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The Heart of Advent and Love Made Real
Barbara Toohill, PsyD, LCP Barbara Toohill, PsyD, LCP

The Heart of Advent and Love Made Real

You don't have to explain your heart to a God who has felt it beat. As we enter Christmas week, we reflect on the radical empathy of “God with us.” You are seen, you are known, and you are irrevocably loved.

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